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I know why people ask “So when are you going to have kids?” September 30, 2009

Filed under: family,Parenthood — hokiecaryn @ 8:36 pm
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We are family.

We are family.

It generally starts around high school.  “Where are you going to go to college?”  Then “Are you seeing anyone?”  That question proceeds to “When are you going to get married (already!)?” If you marry, then you are always asked, “So when are you going to have kids?”

Most of us have been there. Most of us have squirmed, and thought, WHY does everyone have to ask me that? Why can’t I just focus on where I am? Why do I always have to be taking the next big step?  Why are they in such a rush?

Well, when I went to college, I began to understand the desire to ask the next class that dreaded question.  When I got married, I began to understand why people are always asking about when you’re going to get married.  And, oh, having a child, I now understand why people ask that question!

Anyway, there are probably plenty of reasons.  Some may be less noble as these.  I thought this might help the collection of people out there sans kids understand why people like me may ask you this question: (more…)

 

More on Cloth Diapers September 20, 2009

Filed under: Uncategorized — hokiecaryn @ 2:36 pm

As a follow up to my previous posts (cloth diapering #1, #2) I wanted to add that my last batch of cloth diapers that I made so far are my favorite [photos to come].  I improvised my pattern/design with two major changes. I’m including information about that and then some other general info and tips from my experience.  The opinions expressed here are my own unless otherwise stated, and everyone has their own opinion on everything baby related, so I am in no way the final expert on this stufff. ha!! :)

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I spy… September 5, 2009

Filed under: Uncategorized — hokiecaryn @ 12:43 pm
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Coming and Going: Dolphin & Pelican

This week was the first time we recognized Josiah really seeing wildlife as dozens of birds flew all around us out on the beach.  We’ve had the wonderful blessing of getting to stay extra days after a staff retreat to enjoy the beach here. It is a gorgeous gulf-coast beach in Florida and we’re really enjoying the time.

The other night, we walked out a pier to a restaurant at the end, and the fishermen were out, and so were the fisher-birds! The pelicans and gulls and herons were all over, and Josiah was beginning to see them and take them in.  When we were out at the beach, he saw the birds there, too, and really watched them fly by and such. Of course his vision of them is still somewhat limited by their movements and distance, but its’ so neat to see him SEE kind of a new “level” of things; a new development.

We got to see dolphins, too, but he didn’t get that yet!

 

Boys will be Boys September 4, 2009

Filed under: around the house,Parenthood — hokiecaryn @ 10:55 am

And babies will be babies. I know some of the things Josiah is up to these days are typical of a lot of babies, especially with the strong-willed, get-going, active personality like I believe he has.  I also know I’m “in for it” with the precocious boy thing.  As I’ve been reading “Bringing Up Boys” by Dr. James Dobson, it has been a very good reminder of how boys are different, and what might be in store for us. Not that they won’t all have different personalities and interests, but knowing his father, I’m guessing Josiah is going to be an in the mud kind of kid.

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I got a great deal on a Tonka dump truck and a kid rug with a construction theme on it at a consignment sale. (Of course, dually appropriate because of my previous experience and interest in civil engineering and construction).  Anyway, I figured the rug would be good at this point to put down in the Living Room or his room so he can crawl on something other than the laminate floors.  (well, learn to crawl anyway).

But a story about the kid’s rug.  I noticed it seemed a little dingy, but I thought some cleaning might spruce it up, and that basically it was going to get dirty anyway, so why not?  I took it into the bathroom and hosed it off, scrubbed with green cleaner, and then kept hosing it with the shower faucet.

Tons of dirt and grime ran out of the carpet and down the drain. As I sat there for a few minutes just watching this grime wash down the drain.  I had a feeling that this image might well represent part of the next dozen years of my life…watching the tons of dirt and grime wash down the drain.  I don’t know…that was just the experience I had as I sat there; and I wasn’t down about it or anything, just preparing myself with a deep breath for what may be to come raising a little guy.

The carpet did come out much brighter and cleaner! it was very exciting.

The next story came while I was taking photos of some of my sewing projects.

I’ll let these pictures tell the story…

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Yes, that’s him looking cute, spitting up and then playing with it. I set the camera down before he started tasting it. Yummy. Fun times…fun times.  I love the little rugrat, though.

 

 
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