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Reviving Ancient Methods: Apprenticeship August 19, 2010

Filed under: culture,Education,family — hokiecaryn @ 1:57 pm

Continuing to read Laura Brodie’s book, Love in a time of Homeschooling, I hit another trigger point for discussion.

Brodie recalls seeing a young man, Grant Colfax, as a guest of Johnny Carson.  Colfax was going off to Harvard, never having completed a year of formal school.  His parents would later become famous in the homeschooling world as the authors of Homeschooling for Excellence.  But this was the first Brodie had heard of anything like homeschooling.  Colfax had grown up on a remote homestead in Northern California. This author summed his experience: “Much of his education had been hands-on, helping his parents clear land and build a farm. He had learned biology while raising animals, geometry while constructing a house, and his discovery of Indian ruins on the family property had inspired him to study North American archaeology.”

Investigating Ancient Methods

Reading this made me recall part of another book I recently read called, Living at Nature’s Pace: Farming and the American Dream by Gene Logsdon, a friend of author Wendell Berry. Logsdon’s book is a collection of essays in response to the dying vision of farming in America, seeking a return to traditional farming methods and wondering at their success potential. (more…)

 

Schooling Dilemma, part 1 August 17, 2010

Filed under: culture,Education — hokiecaryn @ 2:42 pm
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In the beginning stages of exploring options for our children and schooling, I went to the library recently with the intent to start collecting some resources.  I started a book called Love in a time of Homeschooling.  An English professor and mother of three, Laura Brodie shares her journey with her eldest daughter in deciding to take a sabbatical from school for one year to homeschool her. Brodie conveys herself an unlikely candidate for homeschooling.  But as she saw the crisis of her daughter’s experience in school, and the dilemma of the education system, she tries to take action as she can.  This book is the story of her year, what she tried, and her reflections. The take-away is not an answer to what’s the best way; Brodie admits she’s still seeking a remedy for her children, and knows that each one is so unique in their needs.  But it is interesting reading the chronicles of her decision, the year at home, and her experiences.

I’m not surprised by some of the insights from her research because I’ve been hearing similar things throughout the past few years about the state of the “public” education. (more…)

 

More on Grief, Loss & Sorrow August 14, 2010

Filed under: faith — hokiecaryn @ 12:50 am
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Wow, what an inviting topic for a post. I won’t be apologetic though.

Many smarter, wiser, and experienced people have gone before me in this journey of entering grief, loss and sorrow; for them I am thankful.  Beginning almost 10 years ago now, before experiencing (or recognizing and dealing with) my own grief, loss and sorrow, I tried entering into some authors and people’s lives on these topics.  It felt foreign to me until I was able to recognize my own journey in them, and connect with my own personal experiences.

Scott and I shared several posts around Easter of last year reflecting on difficult pain and suffering, and God: Haiti & Suffering, Dallas Willard on never tasting death, and reflections from women who have lost a child. Those are all good to revisit.

In the past, when someone was hurting  I would keep them at arm’s length, say “I’m sorry”, and then try to say something positive and move on.  I know how trite and unhelpful this was, but it was my initial response in my ignorance. Having journeyed deep into grief, loss and sorrow, I now have a little more understanding of why “they” encourage you to offer a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on and an open door to talk. And to offer silence, without answers. (more…)

 

On Grief, Loss and Sorrow August 13, 2010

Filed under: faith — hokiecaryn @ 3:51 am
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It’s the middle of the night. I’m awake and can’t get back to sleep.

Neither can my son apparently.

Instead of agonizing about not sleeping (since I’d already done this for about an hour) I got up to write. Tonight triggered me into deeper thinking on topics I have resisted recently. Topics that aren’t really pleasant to think about, feel, or share — sorrow, grief, loss.

I actually ran across a saved draft of a post that I never finished. Since I wrote the text below almost 3 years ago, hopefully it’s safe to share at this odd hour.

This was what I wrote to an email-group of parents dealing with grief that I was moderating at the time (another story). These parents shared in a common grief, and to be a part of their sharing together was awkward at first, but I found it most humbling and educating to be invited into their pain and their search for light in dark places. In the year of 2009, I had my own very dark places to trod.  Remembering my previous experience with others’ grief helped me tremendously. I’ll share what this group inspired me to pen almost 3 years ago as I tried to encourage them in their own grief journeys. (more…)

 

 
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