We have been deeply pondering the topic of raising and educating our children for a number of years. One regular topic of conversation has been the idea of homeschooling our children, at least through their elementary school years. We’ve engaged in this conversation with certain friends, but in general it’s felt… unsafe… to discuss. Opinions and feelings vary widely. But, with trembling, we feel like we should start talking more openly about what we are learning — to gain insights from our friends, and to share the insights we have gained. Though what we write below may sound dogmatic, understand that it is written in a spirit of humility and friendship. Ultimately, this decision comes down to each family’s personal conviction. — Scott & Caryn
We’ve often had discussions with friends about another question in the dilemma – is it right to abandon the government (public) schools? If the “good” people leave, will they just degrade more? Is it our place to stay involved? These are also hard questions to answer and I hear many people questioning this when they look at alternatives to public school.
In Schooling Dilemma, Part 1, we took a quick look at the question of homeschooling. Now let’s dig in a bit deeper together…
First, we consider the conversations with several neighbors and friends in different parts of the country questioning whether their children are even learning in school. Even teacher friends attest that students acquire knowledge for standardized testing and waste a large chunk of their day in travel to school, administrative tasks (attendance, class changes) and dealing with misbehaving classmates. Literacy rates are falling and schools are failing. This is not to knock teachers by the way. They are not always the problem.
It seems an interesting option to teach and train at home, have children more effectively learn and efficiently use their time; and then use the extra time to engage together in the community. Choosing alternative school options does not withdraw students or parents from society at large. We can engage in extracurricular activities which do overlap with the government school realm (or local city/county leagues), at public venues such as libraries and rec centers, at playgrounds and Chick-fil-a. A book Caryn read recently even suggested that as tax paying citizens, you are able to enroll your children in certain classes/activities with the public school even if they are officially home schooled. And then of course later there are opportunities with community colleges, etc. We have many interesting options available today.





Oh, and I like that Easter has spring flowers, pretty dresses, bunnies, and Easter egg hunts, but I’m glad that’s not at ALL what it’s about….that’s just fluff. The REAL story is riveting and unbelievably good.
“Truly, truly, I say to you,

As soon as I knew he was a boy, I knew I would give him the middle name of Randolph: a family name and my middle name. In addition to “Wolf Shield” it’s also variously rendered as “Wolf Counselor” or “House Wolf.” The idea is a fierce, half-wild but loyal guardian. If you’ve read White Fang and remember how he protected the human family that adopted him at the end of the book, you can grasp a good idea of what the name suggests to me.
More than ever I have felt the power of things greater than me. I wonder if I have really robed myself in the armor; have I ever REALLY let God be in control? The battle drains my strength and weakens my knees. I wonder if I have been prepared for the true power of the pursuit — ravenous wolves who desire to take hold of the dear blessed place of gifts and salvation that my Hero has brought me. Stealing my promised land from me before I enter it (thank you, Beth Moore).
ry and the life that it created for her, I knew little about the structure and presentation of how Hawthorne would offer this story. I found it to be an intriguing surprise, and I’m glad I now know the novel from personal experience. I probably enjoyed it more since it was by choice and not as assignment to be able to answer questions on the test! I did find myself reflective and thought I would share some of what I’ve processed….I guess I wrote an essay anyway, but I’m free to be wrong because there’s no red pen here; of course I am open to other thoughts.