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Mommy Favorites January 7, 2010

Filed under: around the house,family,Product Review — hokiecaryn @ 10:08 pm
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As we are already approaching 11 months with our first child, I thought I would write a post about my “mommy favorites” — things that I found to be essential in helping us survive the first little one.  [I may add more and add photos later!]

I start by acknowledging my situation and preferences are potentially very different from the next mommy.  We are frugal and in a fairly small house, living on one income.  We had a son who was colicky for 3 months, never really enjoyed tummy time until he was ready to start inching around, and is just his own baby — every baby is so different in many ways!

We had plenty of preconceived notions, fears, and exciting wonderful things we looked forward to.  We had some definite and some pseudo opinions; many of those have changed drastically since we had our baby!

I’m going to include here some of my favorite things from our experience.  I hope that it might help someone out there.  I had several great moms send me their short list and I found it helpful.  I haven’t really included toys. That’s a whole other post! (more…)

 

Being a Mom May 24, 2009

Filed under: family,Parenthood — hokiecaryn @ 9:24 am
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I realized that this past week included my first “mommy” event as a mommy, not counting my baby shower.  I attended a Mom’s 100_6555time at a church nearby where several of our friends go.  It is a great program and these older moms in the church body have such a wonderful heart to help encourage younger moms through this ministry.  I was highly encouraged to be a part of it.  Of course, Josiah was kind of uncooperative the day before, and was questionable that morning. I had packed the car, and Josiah was screaming his head off at this point. I almost didn’t go.

But my sweet friend called me to say that it was fine if I came late.  I was determined then to go ahead.  I got there late, and it was their last meeting of this year (they kind of go on a school calendar) and I didn’t really get a ton from the teaching exactly, slightly distracted feeding and taking care of the spit up of my little one.  But, it was just encouraging to be in a room of moms.  The speaker was talking about how she didn’t wake up every day wanting to do all the things before her; that some of it was responsibility and where we needed to seek after God for the endurance and patience to push through laundry, meal planning, tight budgets, crying kids, etc.  And how we need each other in this.

It was also nice to look around the room and see a great collection of moms.  Some had several children, some were just pregnant with their first.  Some moms were older with young children; some younger with older children, some older with older children!  Some with 7 kids, one married off already.  And several of us with our first.  It’s nice to feel “normal” and see so many others trying to find sanity and community amidst busyness.

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Born Into Brothels May 4, 2009

Filed under: books, music, media,faith,family — Scott @ 9:13 pm
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The children of the brothel

The children of the brothel

This movie has been on my netflix queue for about a year. I’ve wanted to watch it since I heard of it, but somehow it never felt like a good time to watch.

But really, when would be a “good” time to watch a documentary about children born into brothels in the slums of Calcutta, India? So I finally watched it this evening. And sobbed my way through it.

An American photographer in India became interested in the plight of women and children in the red light district of Calcutta and decided to live among them. The brothels are full of children, and she began handing out cameras and teaching the children to take photographs. The documentary is the story of these children, their pictures, and their lives in the brothels.

It’s quite jarring at first, peering into the hard lives of the children. It’s shocking to see the conditions in which they live, the awkwardness of these little ones in the midst of the sex trade. And yet it is somehow fitting to see the results of prostitution through their eyes. After all, sex is kind of about children.

Isn’t it?

So God created man in his own image,
in the image of God he created him;
male and female he created them.
God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it.”
For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. (Genesis 1:27-28;2:24)

I felt the truth of this passage as I came to know the children through the camera’s lens. I came to know them, not as the outcasts of society, not as the children of prostitutes, not as a failure of contraception, but as human beings, created in God’s own image. Children whose lives are precious in His sight. I came to love and care for them.

By the way, the Sonagachi district alone is estimated to have around 10,000 sex workers and who knows how many children (whether they are working or not).

This movie is strong medicine, a view of lust from the other side. For some reason, God’s most precious gifts are those we abuse the most and use to destroy one another.

I mean sex. But I also mean the children.

May God have mercy on us, and may His just reign soon come on earth as it is in heaven.

 

 
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